Marriage is a long term relationship
between two individuals.
It is belief that marriage is made in
heaven and considered to be a turning
point in an individual’s life.
The marriage lays emphasis on three
essential values: happiness, harmony,
and growth.
An engagement ceremony is to bless
the couple, who are then given gifts
of jewellery and clothing by
their new family.
Marriage is considered to be one of
the most important duties of
a person’s life.
The ceremony is held in temple or in
the decorated wedding hall which
includes a party.
Marriage takes few days to complete
the ceremony with various rituals in
the presence of fire deity.
There will be four banana plants
positioned around the canopy and
thousands of coloured
lights will be hung.
The bridegroom wears a shewarni and
the bride wears a beautiful saree
which attract the audiences.
The marriage ceremony commences
with prayers to Lord Ganesh to bless
this occasion and to free the couple
from obstacles.
The couple worship the sacred fire
which symbolises light, power, and
knowledge as a witness.
Bride and groom repeat the sacred pledge
of marriage and request fire deity to be
the messengers to the various gods.
After reciting the marriage mantra, bride
and bridegroom exchange
garland with each other.
At the end, the bridegroom applied vermillion
on bride’s forehead and then puts a golden
necklace (mangalsutra) around her neck,
which is the most cherished ornament of
a married woman.
~Bhupesh Chandra Karmakar
New Delhi, India
A marriage ceremony well enacted!