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Be Unique Be You

by Syed Inshaallah Tahir

There is something deeply wrong when we try to be someone else and forget our own individuality. When you are born, you are not given cloned identity, you are endowed with certain qualities, unique patterns, colors, unique capacities, and specialties and therefore you are to perform unique responsibilities that no one else would do better than you. Over the ages, a lot has changed, progressed, and revolutionized and so is the way of thinking and living. Change yourself, change for betterment, change for harmony.

Think beyond what you can accomplish, you have the power to face any hardship that comes your way, respond to any challenge with courage as history witnesses such facts. Polish your capacities and there will be no possible reason denying your success. There are upheavals in everyone’s life and it is part of living. Your smile bears the power to spread joy in your surroundings, do not let anyone erode your contentment.

Wind, storms, and rain elevate the importance of the sunshine part. Without the other how can it be appreciated? Likewise, comfort is appreciated more when one faces discomfort as life is a mixture of both good and bad happenings, then only faith explains your individuality and capacity of believing in yourself.

Remember the role played during unfavorable times unfolds your uniqueness otherwise favorable seasons are enjoyed by everyone and no uniqueness is revealed to any extent. The smooth path does not provide any lesson rather it is the arduous road that teaches you the secrets of successful destinations. Never lose hope, if you are currently facing any difficulty in one way or another, believe in yourself only you can change the situation, no one else would do it for you. Worrying will not prevent terrible situations from occurring; it will only hinder you from appreciating the pleasant.

Hold on! you can play a conspicuous role to regulate any situation, let it happen only by being you and nobody else. You have the power to either pulverize the hardship in your path or let it double its way, remember your way of reaction has a dual effect. The undue importance is given to your lacking if any will bereft your unique capacity from playing its role which no one else would be holding. So, do not thwart your potential by thinking about what you cannot do. Don’t be embarrassed by your errors; instead, accept, take lessons from them and start over. Nurture your mental faculties by enquiring about the difference between good and bad, you will definitely praise your life and get praised for your uniqueness. Only those who could decide and act can become successful. It has been beautifully said by Harley Davidson that “when writing the story of your life, don’t let anyone else hold the pen”. Be unique, Be you. A Message to all young girls

About the Author:

Syed Inshaallah Tahir is a Research Scholar at Kashmir University

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